Once when we were on holiday we arrived late at a Spanish Hotel and she persuaded them to let us have some Parma ham and then, later, made a fuss about payment saying we were entitled to a meal that evening. I cannot tell now who won the argument. In a Dublin hotel, water dripped from the ceiling and damaged Pam's bag. She successfully asked them to compensate her. These two events are not typical of Pam. I remember them only in that they are unusual. She was not aggressive. Normally she was only too eager to co-operative. She was very law abiding